Relationships.........

i have learnt, in these two weeks, relationships change in time and space. Relationships in the past will always remain in the past. Future relationships will have to be built in the present. Things can never be the same. A hard lesson for an old lady like me to learn but i have to learn neverthelessor else face some severing of a relationship. Even the close relationship between a mother and daughter can be affected after the said daughter got married. The mother must realized that the daughter's world view has changed because she is now the partner of a man. As they build a life together, she too has to adjust and change in her outlook in life. This is quite a shock for many chinese mums like me .....as we thought nothing can change the relationship between a mother and a daughter. How wrong i was! Now i understood how my own mother felt when my sisters got married....why she preferred to live with me.
I certainly learnt to speak when spoken to....don't be too eager to offer your opinion. Your opinion does not matter....so keep you opinion to yourself. From now onwards, just follow their ways...they are happy, you are happy so as to speak. The whole world will be at peace.........